There is no perfect formula that could help a broken hearted man. Men must accept the reality that the women who have cause their broken heart is the only person who can also fix its broken pieces. Most men would probably read articles about “how to win my girlfriend back?” after a traumatic break up. If you have already realized that you can’t live without your ex then do what you have to do but just make sure it will work.

Here are few tips on how to get your ex back instantly

• First make a list of the things that you have to do and plan it very well to make it favorable on your side. Give yourself a time to do so. Don’t rush things because rushing through will likely end up to disasters.

• Your list must consist of days to complete. Don’t do all the things that you have to in just one day. Winning her back must take time and should be gradual.

• After all is set, bring flowers and go visit her. Don’t expect her to be just like the way she is before the break up and don’t act like she is still your girlfriend. Instead, give her the flower and compliment her. Tell her that you happen to pass by to the flower shop and seeing the flowers makes you remember her and then leave after that.

• Seeing you after the break-up with a bunch of flowers would probably shock her and she would think that you are really doing well after it making her more interested to know how well you are doing.

• If she happens to call or message you to thank you for the flowers then this is a good sign that she is still in to you. This is your time to shine. Ask her out again to have a little chat then if she said yes tell her how you really feel. Apologize for everything and tell that you still want her and still willing to go through all the hardships just to get her back. By making her miss you for few days this could make her tell you as well how much she misses you.

You can find a lot of articles about “how to win my girlfriend back” on the net and it’s up to you which one you would like to follow.